Y’all ladies out there, here are five clues that your boyfriend is stuck in a forms of relationship dysfunction that pushes him into separation.
If you notice these indications, you’ve got to ask for a check-in before things get out of control.
1. He Has Nothing To Say To You
When it happens for the first time, you might think, ‘How amazing that he can be so quiet and non-communicative with me.’Just because you’re not arguing all the time doesn’t mean that your relationship is clear of stormy weather. This is why you need to take notice when your partner is getting distant.
2. You Spend Less Time Together
When your boyfriend is discontent, he might start changing his habits, as well as the amount of time he spends with you. Does he play PlayStation more frequently than watched the TV show both of you used to love so much? Is he hanging out more with his buddies that with you? It is high time to talk about this and nip the problem in the bud.
3. He Doesn’t Want To Hear You Out
When instead of discussing your relationship issues, he says that you’ve been through this a millions times before, it means you’re on the brink of disaster. A trending inability to communicate is a sure sign that your partner is unhappy in your relationship. We all have mood swings, but ‘trending’ means this has been going on for days and weeks.
4. He Spends A Lot Of Time Away From You
Of course, your partner might be planning a surprise party when he starts spending more time away from you. However, in most cases, this happens because he’s just not happy when he’s with you.
5. He Became A Short Fuse
If you notice him getting impatient and rough, this can be a sign your partner isn’t happy with your compatibility. Short fuses are very common when people are discontent in relationships. When your partner is getting cranky at the smallest thing, it is also a clue that he is likely miserable in your relationship. Being fussy means expressing their discontent without saying anything directly.